Volume 1: Issue 1
July/August 1996
Same-Sex Marriage
Table Of Contents
Cover Story: Same-Sex Marriage:
There are names synonymous with the struggle for gay and lesbian civil rights:
Stonewall, Bowers v. Hardwick, Baehr vs. Lewin.
We live in a world where marriage vows are usually not worth the paper
they are written on. Yet, the idea of a covenant is the total investment
of those involved. I wonder if God is more concerned
about broken promises or covenants that call on people to go deeper in their
relationship than simple vows.
The battle
for gay and lesbian rights to marry, will be waged in the court house, not
the church house, understanding that unfortunately the two often are found
in compromising relationships.
Everywhere you look you'll find evidence of how straight America has desecrated
the once sacred tradition of tying the knot. These days more than half of
straight marriages end in divorce. I, myself, am the product of a broken
home, even though my father, as a Southern Baptist minister, should have
been well versed on the whole sanctity of marriage thing.
In the end he was not allowed to say goodbye to his dying partner. He would
not have even been told that his lover had died, except that a nurse broke
policy and called him on the sly. He was not even told by his lover's mother
what funeral arrangements there would be or where his lover's final resting
place would be. Not one chance to say goodbye - even after he died.
For 16 years I tried to be
the perfect straight wife...gave it the old college try. But I never felt
sacred -- just felt more and more stifled and dishonest. When my homophobic
spouse finally found out, he told me I was "sick." My first and only visit
to a shrink revealed that he shared my spouse's opinion. So I ran for my
life -- divorce and coming out.
Features:
For anyone who ever considered a Holy Union, a Commitment Ceremony, or any
other formalized relationship agreement, this book holds all the answers.
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