Jonathan,

I don't know exactly which verses you're referring to, but one that is near and dear to my heart is the one wherein Jesus tells the Pharisee that all the law and prophets can be condensed down to "love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength and your neighbor as yourself." (Mark 12:28-31) I can think of no situation wherein it would be loving to commit murder, rape or theft. I can think of situations wherein love between people of the same gender can be, well, loving. I don't think your comparisons hold up and some would say are even insulting.

I've yet to hear of an example of homosexual intimacy that proves that homosexuality is in and of itself sinful. Every example I know of can be applied to heterosexual situations just as well. If it doesn't condemn heterosexuality, it doesn't condemn homosexuality, either.

Read the Bible and allow the Lord to open your eyes to sin. I pray that he will open your eyes.

Actually, Jonathan it was reading the Bible that helped set me free from rules that no longer apply. In that setting free, which I believe to be the Good News of Jesus, I also saw some areas in my life wherein sin was prevalent and needed attention. In the midst of it all, I suppose God does love the sinner and hate the sin. It is for that reason that I continue to work on the sin in my life. Still, my experience with God has not been full of wrath. As one ancient Christian wrote (and if I could remember who, I'd give him credit), "The wrath of God is but a teaspoon compared to the ocean of God's love."

Anyway, as near as I can see, some of what you're praying for has already happened. I pray it continues to happen for both of us.

Peace,

Neil

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